Romans
The Wrestling Match We Call ‘The Christian Life’
"If you sin after you are saved, will you go to hell?" I was recently asked that question at a dinner party. Yes, when you invite a pastor to the party, things get crazy, but that is not the point! The point is that it is a great question that many are wrestling with but are afraid to ask. What does it look like to know you have grace and a new life in Jesus and still wrestle with sin? Is that a deal breaker for Jesus or just a reality of the life of faith He has given us? Join us this Sunday as we dive into this wrestling match with sin that we call the Christian life.
Romans 7:1-25
7 Or do you not know, brothers - for I am speaking to those who know the law - that the law is binding on a person only as long as he lives? 2 For a married woman is bound by law to her husband while he lives, but if her husband dies she is released from the law of marriage. 3 Accordingly, she will be called an adulteress if she lives with another man while her husband is alive. But if her husband dies, she is free from that law, and if she marries another man she is not an adulteress. 4 Likewise, my brothers, you also have died to the law through the body of Christ, so that you may belong to another, to Him who has been raised from the dead, in order that we may bear fruit for God. 5 For while we were living in the flesh, our sinful passions, aroused by the law, were at work in our members to bear fruit for death. 6 But now we are released from the law, having died to that which held us captive, so that we serve in the new way of the Spirit and not in the old way of the written code. 7 What then shall we say? That the law is sin? By no means! Yet if it had not been for the law, I would not have known sin. For I would not have known what it is to covet if the law had not said, “You shall not covet.” 8 But sin, seizing an opportunity through the commandment, produced in me all kinds of covetousness. For apart from the law, sin lies dead. 9 I was once alive apart from the law, but when the commandment came, sin came alive and I died. 10 The very commandment that promised life proved to be death to me. 11 For sin, seizing an opportunity through the commandment, deceived me and through it killed me. 12 So the law is holy, and the commandment is holy and righteous and good. 13 Did that which is good, then, bring death to me? By no means! It was sin, producing death in me through what is good, in order that sin might be shown to be sin, and through the commandment might become sinful beyond measure. 14 For we know that the law is spiritual, but I am of the flesh, sold under sin. 15 For I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate. 16 Now if I do what I do not want, I agree with the law, that it is good. 17 So now it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me. 18 For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out. 19 For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing. 20 Now if I do what I do not want, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me. 21 So I find it to be a law that when I want to do right, evil lies close at hand. 22 For I delight in the law of God, in my inner being, 23 but I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members. 24 Wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? 25 Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, I myself serve the law of God with my mind, but with my flesh I serve the law of sin.
For Adult Homes & Groups
1. Read Romans 7:15-19. Can you relate to the way Paul describes this tension in his life?
2. Read Romans 7:24-25 and Philippians 3:3-10. How does Paul resolve this wrestling match with sin?
3. We all wrestle with sin. How does this reality change the way you relate to those who don’t know Jesus?
4. What stuck out to you in this message? How will you live it out this week?
For Families with Kids
1. Read Romans 7 together as a family.
2. Have you ever felt like Paul in v15? Have you ever wanted to do the right thing because you knew it was right, but instead you did something you knew was wrong? Read v16. What does it show us about when we know we did something wrong and we really hate what we did?
3. Read v20. What is the cause of all this struggle inside us?
4. Read v24. What question is asked?
5. Read v.25. Who is the “Who” that will set us free?
6. Jesus saves us today from the power of sin and its effects, and He will save us from this body of sin when He returns. Thank God for His saving power of grace over your family. Pick a favorite song about God’s grace and listen to/sing along as a family.