Today’s message is not for shame, but for saving. It is an opportunity to turn deep regret into profound redemption. Jesus speaks piercingly into our hearts when it comes to the 6th Commandment (do not commit adultery) and where it all stems from: lust. Once again, Jesus gets to the heart of the matter. Why? He loves our hearts all the more at their messiest and wants nothing but the best for them, even when it seems hardest.

Matthew 5:27-30

27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell.

For Adult Homes and Groups

1. Memorize the 6th Commandment. Then read Jesus’ words in Matthew 5:27-30. What connection does Jesus make, and why doesn’t He shy away from it?

2. Read Luther’s explanation of the 6th Commandment and reread Matthew 5:27-30. How do these line up?

3. What are the temptations and challenges in today’s society regarding sex?

4. What does true repentance look like in the context of lust, adultery, and sexual sin?

5. How can we, as a church, offer support and encouragement to those afflicted and affected by sexual sin?

6. Pray together. Be honest. Lay your burdens down at Jesus’ feet. Ask the Lord for conviction, courage, and compassion.

For Families with Kids

1. Memorize the 6th Commandment and read Luther’s explanation of it.

2. Read Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 5:27-30 together.

3. Jesus cares about our hearts and thoughts. What does it mean to have a “pure heart”? Who alone can make us pure? How does He do that?

4. How can we show kindness and respect to everyone around us, whether they are boys or girls?

5. Why does Jesus care about what we think and feel in our hearts, and not just about what we do? Think of ways we can ask Jesus for help with our thoughts.

6. Pray the Lord’s Prayer together.